My book, Designing Data-Intensive Applications, was published by O’Reilly in March 2017.
Published by Martin Kleppmann on 30 Jan 2010.
As an entrepreneur you have to negotiate things: customer contracts, freelance rates, investments, acquisitions and more. These things are really important, but you probably grew up in a western country where you buy the bar of chocolate for the price it says on the shelf, no more and no less. We’re not used to negotiating things. So how do you determine a good price?
I’m sure much has been written about this already, but I’ve not really read any of it. Instead I made up some principles based on my own bit of experience and a bit of common sense, and maybe you will find them useful.
So let’s take a look at a negotiation from the point of view of the seller. When you’re selling something, you want to charge as much as you can get away with. The higher the price, the better for you, i.e. the higher the monetary benefit of the sale to you.
The first bit of money makes a big difference – maybe you really need it so that you can pay the rent, otherwise you’ll get kicked out of your house. Within this range, having more money is clearly a lot more valuable for you. However, as the amounts increase and you have secured an acceptable standard of living, I would argue that the benefit of the money to you slows down. Frankly, a top-paid investment banker would barely notice the difference if their salary or bonus was increased or decreased by 50%.
But nevertheless, although it gradually flattens a bit, the line is always increasing. If you can get more out of a deal, it’s a better deal. At first glance anyway.
However, that’s not the end of the story. When I am negotiating with someone, this is usually someone I actually want to work with, and I want to stay friends with them. You don’t want to charge so much that they will simply walk away. And if you’re in a strong position where the buyer doesn’t have much choice (eg. because it’s something urgent and they don’t have time to find someone else), you don’t want to abuse your position, as otherwise you will get a bad reputation as someone who takes advantage of others.
Therefore, you should be taking your relationship with the buyer into account. How indignant they will be about your price will depend on a lot of factors (the market value of what you have to offer, how much you charged them previously, how much they can afford, etc). But in general there will be some sort of function describing how happy they are depending on the price (BogoGraph alert!):
Here I plotted in blue the buyer’s “goodwill” (not in any financial sense, just in the sense of “how much they like you”). If you charge too much, they will obviously hate you, so the graph goes downhill very rapidly beyond a certain point. You probably don’t want to go there. I think it is also possible to charge too little, which conveys the message that what you have is not particularly good and not worth very much; but that won’t offend your buyer nearly as much as overcharging them. So I’d say that the graph first goes up a little bit, and then goes down a lot.
How do you figure out the shape of that curve for your buyer? That’s hard. You need to get a few data points, for example you might try asking them for a pretty high price and observing how upset they get. But you’ve got to be very careful – don’t abuse their trust and don’t waste their time. The longer you spend trying to measure the blue curve, the lower it gets overall (i.e. the more irritated they get with you). It’s better if you can use external things as reference points – how much an alternative solution would cost them, how much they have paid for comparable things in the past, the size of their budget (which they probably won’t tell you but you might be able to guess indirectly).
The value you get out of making the sale is twofold: on the one side the money you get out of it, and on the other side the buyer’s goodwill (with all of its intangible benefits, such as keeping open potential future deals, recommendations, referrals, general happiness and warm fuzzy feelings). You want both, so let’s just add the two curves together:
The red line is simply the sum of the blue and the black, and represents the total value you’re getting out of the sale. Some things to observe:
This brings us to an interesting concept: you can trade in buyer’s goodwill for more money by adjusting how much you care about how the other party feels. There is a return on the indignation of the other party, and it’s up to you to choose what you want this return to be.
It depends on your character and on the strategic value of the particular deal. I generally work with quite a low return on indignation, i.e. I value goodwill quite highly and won’t readily trade it for a bit more money. That’s because:
That’s my approach, and I’m sure others will think differently. But at least, with a framework like this, you can be conscious about your return on indignation.